Listen… A LOT of what we learned about sex and sexual health in our younger years has basically been a load of bullshit. Bullshit that has lead us to have some mistaken beliefs when it comes to our sex lives and how to stay healthy while living our best lives sexually!

Thanks to the beautiful resource that is social media, I was able to discover AMAZING resources to help me navigate my sex life while being well informed and prepared. Not only am I well-informed but I am also able to keep myself mentally healthy by understanding how to form boundaries around sex and getting better education on consent.

SO!

Of course, anything that I learn I WANT to share with you friends, so check out my favorite Sex Positive Instagram Accounts.

P.S. Make sure to look for a sexy little discount code at the end of the blog ;)

Ev’Yan Whitney | @evyan.whitney

Ev’yan has played a HUGE role in how I open up about sex and how I talk about my sexual desires and boundaries. At a time, she struggled with the desire to have sex and often forced herself to have sex when she didn’t want to. In her words, she was “violating herself.” And in this experience, she set out to do work to help others redraw their boundaries and connect with themselves in order to find PLEASURE in their sexual experiences.

My mission is to breathe sensual light into you, to hold space for you as you reconnect to your body, and to gently guide you towards healing that’ll shake the foundations of the lies you’ve been told about your pleasure and power.

~Ev’Yan Whitney

2. Tricia | @safe.slut

Tricia is a HSV (Herpes) positive babe who is using her diagnosis to help educate people and empower those who are living with HSV. She is a sex + body postive human who is dedicated to smashing the stigma! Listen, I love this page. After my own diagnosis with HSV, I quickly realized how much of a hell hole Google is. This page has given me A LOT of information about STIs as well as reassured me that I could still have a sexy sex life while being HSV+. Not only that but her page has provided information on how to disclosure your status so that your partners can give informed consent to all your pleasurable experiences <3

Disclosing our status to potential partners puts us in an oftentimes scary, but necessary position—it makes us practice our communication skills and also makes us super vulnerable. I’ve found that this vulnerability makes my partners also just as vulnerable and way more comfortable with me, considering I just shared a very important part of my life luckily, I’ve found this makes my sexual partners more vulnerable sexually—my partners have been way more likely to ask to do some weird shit/things a lil more on the kinky side, which I just absolutely love 😈

~Tricia

3. Ashleigh Nicole Tribble | @Ashleighchubbybunny

Photo from @ashleighchubbybunny Instagram

Ashleigh is a sexy bisexual artist and activist who is literally KILLING IT!!! Exclusively promoting and honoring fat marginalized bodies and celebrating their sexuality! The media has taken the expression of sexuality from fat bodies, especially Black fat bodies, and used them repeatedly as punchlines or shaming them into not celebrating themselves. That is why I absolutely LOVE Ashleigh’s work. She is reclaiming sexuality for herself and others by brushing off the shaming and attacking fatphobic ideologies head on.

4. Raquel Savage | @raquelsavage

Raquel Savage is a Sex Coach and Former Sex Worker who is doing the work to help those get in touch with their sexuality while advocating for Sex Workers. You can read my FAVORITE article written by her for Bitch Media, here.

Her relentless rise is partly because of her education and experience, but also because of her pur passion to erase the shame around sex and sexuality. Raquel Savage isn’t just a woman with a brand and passion, she has a mission. And that mission is to turn shamed folks into unapologetic, fearless savages too.

~Biography by Myles E. Johnson about Raquel Savage.

5. Sam’s Clam | @Shrimpteeth

Sam is a amazing illustrating who is introducing new ways to experience sex, sexuality, and relationships through her graphics and art. She is giving great information, advice, and peer support to those who need it most! I absolutely adore her page and all the information that she has provided to me!

6. Emily L. Depasse | @sexelducation

Emily L. Depasse is a sexologist redefining the narratives of STIs and relationships. She is constantly putting out content that helps people navigate the tough conversations surrounding sex and intimacy while encouraging you to move at your own pace. You can see her feature about Public STI Disclosure, here.

7. @sluttygrlprobs

Listen… We all have those sexy thoughts and fantasies that we may feel shy about expressing. Know that it’s normal and healthy for you to want to try something a little more on the kinky side. This account, ran by a sex educator and sex coach, validates those feelings for you and even gives you sweet ways you can bring those desires up to potential partners!

8. Molly Margaret |@whatswrongwithmollymargaret

Image from @whatswrongwithmollymargaret instagram

Molly Maragret is basically an icon. In her words she is a “sad, hilarious, gay, sex postive poet and freak,” who makes INCREDIBLE CONTENT around sex, sexuality, and dating. She is best known for her templates for those dating scenarios that you just don’t know how to navigate.

9. Arielle | @whoregasmic

Do you just need a funny sex related meme? Or just some good relatable sex content. Well Arielle over on whoregasmic is a fucking gem and creates the best content <3 Her boudoir session with 75th and Yeadon (Me) will be up on the blog soon!!! She also has a sexy little Only Fans!

10. Miryam | @smhpod

Miryam, along with Arielle over on Whoregasmic, host a podcast called Seven Minutes in Heaven. A sex news podcast that gives you all the tea and resources needed to stay informed about things all things sex news related. They even hold Q+As to answer questions from their audience!!

I hope that you babe-ly humans find these accounts helpful!!

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All the best + Much Love,

75th and Yeadon

Note: All Images featured on today’s blog are owned by the individuals featured.

Ev’Yan Whitney | @evyan.whitney